Do you ever feel stuck in your head? Maybe you cycle through the same problem again and again. But, somehow, you never find a satisfying solution.
If that feels familiar, you are not alone.
This behavior is called rumination. This is the process of analyzing, planning, and trying to urgently solve an issue. But, how often does that analysis lead to a real result? Often, it leads to nothing but anxiety.
It can be frustrating. We often feel dissociated, detached from reality. Rather than being helpful, ruminating can trap us. Rumination feels like an overwhelming whirlpool, an involuntary cycle.
But, therapy can slowly bring back mindfulness.
When we work with patients, we begin by building awareness on rumination. We identify this process when it comes up, and relentlessly name it.
“Oh! This is rumination. It’s happening right now.”
In therapy, we also build bodily awareness. We will practice being mindful of our bodies to identify the sensation. Often, the feeling of urgency or panic accompanies the thought spiral. By catching either the feeling or the thoughts, we can recognize it.
Once we can identify these, we can interrupt it. While it feels involuntary, rumination is an active process. Like solving a math problem, we are engaging it. So, our next goal is disengaging from rumination. It can be hard in the beginning, but we can build tools that help.
By practicing these in session, we can wield a weapon to cut through the ruminatory process. Together, we can find the specific tools that work best for you.
Rumination may feel overwhelming, but it is not hopeless. Together, we can regain a sense of control.