Couples Therapy
Couples therapy in New York & Florida to strengthen your relationship
Whether you’re feeling distant, stuck in the same argument, or trying to heal after a breach of trust, couples therapy offers a structured space to reconnect, communicate more clearly, and move forward together.
- • Online couples therapy for New York & Florida residents
- • Support for communication, conflict, intimacy, and trust repair
- • Therapists trained in evidence-based approaches for individuals and couples
We support couples navigating
- Communication breakdowns and frequent conflict
- Feeling distant, disconnected, or “like roommates”
- Rebuilding trust after infidelity or ruptures
- Premarital counseling and major life transitions
- Parenting stress and co-parenting differences
- Impact of anxiety, OCD, or trauma on the relationship
What is couples therapy?
Couples therapy is a collaborative space where you and your partner explore the patterns that keep you feeling stuck—like recurring arguments, emotional distance, or cycles of criticism and withdrawal—and learn new ways of relating.
Instead of assigning blame, we focus on understanding each person’s experience, building empathy, and developing skills for communication, conflict resolution, and reconnection.
Sessions typically last 45–60 minutes and are held via secure video for New York and Florida residents, so you can join from home or another private space.
Common areas of focus
- Improving communication and feeling heard
- Reducing criticism, defensiveness, and shutting down
- Rebuilding trust after affairs or secrecy
- Supporting one another through anxiety, OCD, or depression
- Managing stress from career, parenting, or family-of-origin issues
- Clarifying shared values, roles, and long-term goals
Your therapist will tailor sessions to your relationship—there’s no expectation that you fit a particular mold to benefit from couples counseling.
What to expect in couples therapy with us
Our goal isn’t to “take sides.” Instead, we help both partners feel understood and guide you toward choices that align with the kind of relationship you want to build.
We’ll move at a pace that feels workable while still addressing the patterns that are causing hurt, distance, or confusion between you.
1. Understanding your patterns
We explore what tends to happen during conflict or disconnection, how each partner experiences it, and what you both long for beneath the surface arguments.
2. Building communication skills
You’ll learn practical tools for sharing needs, listening without immediately defending, and de-escalating tension when emotions run high.
3. Practicing new ways of relating
With guidance, you’ll practice more supportive interactions in session—so you can bring them into real-life moments at home, work, or with family.
4. Reviewing progress together
We’ll periodically check in on what’s improving, what still feels tender, and how to adjust your work together as your relationship evolves.
Common reasons couples seek therapy with us
Couples come to EK Mental Health Counseling at many different stages—some are in crisis, others simply want to strengthen their connection and prevent patterns from getting worse.
- Frequent arguments and unresolved conflict
- Premarital questions and expectations
- Healing after infidelity or betrayal
- Feeling like you’ve become “roommates”
- Differences in parenting styles or values
- Blended family stress and in-law dynamics
- Anxiety or OCD impacting the relationship
- Depression and emotional withdrawal
- Trauma history affecting trust or intimacy
- Life transitions (moves, career changes, parenthood)
- Money, roles, or household responsibility conflicts
- Wanting to reconnect after a period of distance
“Is it too late for couples therapy?”
Many couples worry they’ve waited too long or that their problems are “too big” to fix. Other couples wonder if their concerns are serious enough to justify counseling at all.
In reality, most relationships fall somewhere in between. Our role is to help you both understand what’s happening, explore what you want going forward, and work toward those goals—whether that’s deepening connection, navigating a transition, or deciding next steps with care and respect.
Common questions
- Do we need to attend every session together?
- Most sessions are joint, but your therapist may occasionally recommend brief individual check-ins if clinically appropriate.
- What if one of us is unsure about staying in the relationship?
- That’s okay to bring into therapy. We can help you explore ambivalence, clarify what each of you wants, and move toward decisions with care.
- Is online couples therapy effective?
- Many couples find virtual sessions more accessible and consistent. We use the same evidence-based relationship tools while supporting you in the comfort of your home.
Take the next step together
If you and your partner are feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Couples therapy can offer structure, skills, and support as you decide what’s next for your relationship.