Parts Work & IFS in NY & FL

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy for Trauma, Anxiety, and Self-Confidence

IFS views you as made up of many “parts”—all trying to help in their own way. Therapy focuses on building a compassionate relationship with these parts instead of fighting them.

Online IFS-informed therapy for residents of New York and Florida.

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Healing Through Self-Compassion and Inner Harmony

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a powerful and compassionate approach to healing that helps you connect with all parts of yourself. IFS is grounded in the belief that every person has an innate core of strength, calm, and wisdom—the “Self”—alongside different internal “parts” that hold distinct thoughts, feelings, and roles in your life.

IFS therapy views the mind as a family of parts, each with its own perspective and purpose. These parts can sometimes feel conflicted, leading to stress, anxiety, or self-sabotage. Some parts, often called “protectors,” may work hard to shield you from pain, while others—known as “exiles”—carry difficult emotions and past wounds. IFS works to create a safe internal environment where all of these parts can be seen, heard, and healed.

How Does IFS Therapy Work?

In IFS therapy, you’ll learn how to:

  •  Identify Your Parts: With curiosity and openness, we explore the different parts of yourself that may be influencing your thoughts and behaviors.
  •  Build Self-Leadership: Build Self-Leadership: You’ll learn to access your "Self," the core of your being that embodies calm, clarity, and compassion.
  •  Develop Healthy Internal Relationships: Through gentle and guided exercises, you’ll connect with your parts, offering them understanding and healing.
  •  Restore Balance and Harmony: The ultimate goal is to help your parts shift from extreme roles into healthier, more supportive roles in your life.

Real-Life Examples of IFS Therapy

  •  Anxiety Management: You might discover that a part of you constantly worries as a way to keep you safe. By connecting with this part, you can help it find a more effective and less distressing role.
  •  Healing Trauma: You could engage with an “exiled” part that holds painful memories, providing it with the compassion and support it needs to heal.
  •  Navigating Relationships: You may work with a part that feels anger or defensiveness in relationships, understanding its protective intentions while finding healthier ways to connect with others.

Why Choose IFS Therapy with Us?

  •  A Safe, Non-Judgmental Space: We create an environment where all of your parts are welcome.
  •  Compassionate Guidance: Our approach is rooted in deep empathy and respect for your inner experience.
  •  Empowerment Through Self-Leadership: We focus on helping you connect with your inner "Self" to foster genuine, lasting change.
If you’ve ever felt like “part of me wants this, part of me doesn’t,” IFS might be a helpful way to understand and heal those inner conflicts.
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