Healing the Inner Critic

Self-Compassion Therapy for Shame, Perfectionism, and Self-Criticism

A self-compassion approach helps you relate differently to your thoughts and emotions—replacing harsh self-judgment with understanding, accountability, and care.

Online self-compassion–informed therapy for residents of New York and Florida.

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The Self-Compassion Approach to Therapy

Healing Through Kindness and Acceptance

Many people struggle with self-criticism, perfectionism, and feelings of not being "good enough." The self-compassion approach to therapy helps you develop a kinder, more understanding relationship with yourself, leading to greater emotional resilience, reduced stress, and a deeper sense of well-being.

How Does Self-Compassion Therapy Work?

In Self-Compassion therapy, you’ll learn how to:

  •  Recognizing Self-Criticism: You’ll learn to identify patterns of negative self-talk and replace them with more supportive and compassionate inner dialogue.
  •  Practicing Mindfulness: Developing present-moment awareness helps you observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment, reducing reactivity and distress.
  •  Cultivating Self-Kindness: We focus on shifting from self-blame to self-support, helping you respond to challenges with care rather than criticism.
  •  Embracing Common Humanity: Understanding that everyone experiences difficulties allows you to feel less isolated and more connected to others.
  •  Building Emotional Resilience: Through self-compassion techniques, you’ll develop healthier ways of coping with setbacks, anxiety, and stress.

Real-Life Examples of Self-Compassion in Therapy

  •  Overcoming Perfectionism: By practicing self-kindness, you can reduce cycles of self-judgment that intensify feelings of distress.
  •  Healing from Trauma: Offering yourself compassion instead of self-blame helps shift the emotional burden and supports deep healing.
  •  Navigating Relationships: Self-compassion fosters healthier boundaries and communication, allowing you to connect with others in a more authentic and confident way.

Why Choose a Self-Compassion Approach with EK Mental Health Counseling?

  •  A Safe, Supportive Space: We provide a non-judgmental environment where you can explore your emotions with kindness and understanding.
  •  Empowerment Through Self-Kindness: Our approach helps you replace self-criticism with self-acceptance, leading to lasting emotional growth.
  •  Evidence-Based Techniques: Grounded in research, self-compassion therapy has been shown to improve mental health, reduce anxiety, and enhance overall well-being.
You deserve the same kindness you’d offer someone you care about.
If you’re ready to change the way you speak to yourself, we’d love to support you.
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